Asking RICH Men If They Prefer Stay At Home WIVES?

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1. What do you prefer: A stay at home wife or a women who makes her own money????

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   1. A woman can make her own bread working from home so if you would have asked men if they prefer a stay at home wife or a wife who works outside the home, all the men would’ve agreed they prefer a stay at home wife.

   2. I’ve been a SAHM mom for the last 18 yrs- I’ve worked on and off as a mindset coach, counselor, writer & only just now stepping back into FT entrepreneurship because before babies I was a young successful Ad executive and I loved my job but being able to stay at home was something no amount of money could replace.

   3. @HypnoticHollywood “Stay at home” and “work from home” are 2 different things. Most people define “stay at home” as not working a job for income but instead focusing on the family and household.

   4. @@kwilson4125 very true- I’ve been raising my children who are preparing for college – I’ve been a ghost writer, content creator & mindset coach on and off because being a mom and sacrificing the second income was priority- they are def two diff things!

   5. ​@@kwilson4125..so true to stay at home with no side hustle…. did that Mmmm will rather stay at home with a hustle

2. Masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected. ❤

   1. Spot on!

   2. Amen

   3. “protected and preserved.”

   4. Wow where can I find a man like that. I was married for 16 years. I was a real estate investor I located property my husband remodeled we were a team. We shared money. Divorce happened. Now I’m with a boyfriend for 3 years. He was a drug addict I didn’t know. Found out them helped him start 2 profitable business. He’s making 150,000 a year now. Went from cleaning headlights at liquor stores and crack cocaine to 150,000 a year in 1 year. He saved his money and bought a house cash for 200,000 dollars in San Miguel de Allende. Rents it out ! I have my own business but my business has slowed down for some reason and suddenly my boyfriend doesn’t want to send me the 120 dollars he sends every Saturday to me. We live together I wash clothes clean house communicate with his clients. I set up next door app, Venmo zelle Instagram everything for his business shirts business cards I bought him 2 huge A sandwich boards signs , tools, even found his work truck for cheap. Now he’s suddenly says I only made 1000 dollars this week so I can’t give you your 120 weekly. We pay rent 50/50 electric, internet, Netflix. He has no bills just stacks his money has over 100,000 in bank and past 3 weeks stopped giving me 120. I didn’t stop washing or cleaning or helping him with his business. What’s going on?

   5. Love this one ❤

3. I’m a stay at home wife. I cook homemade meals every day. i do dishes and laundry every day. I keep the house clean and cozy. I am calm and happy and well rested so I am pleasant company. When I worked full time I was overstimulated, didnt have energy or interest in cooking or cleaning or entertaining a man. Staying home gives me feminine energy to be a pleasant wife.

   1. And probably a husband who treats you right as well

   2. What happens if your husband leaves you one day, or dies and kids grow and move away?

      Being a stay at home wife is good when it works but the amount of women who are screwed over when it doesnt is tragic

   3. I love that for you ♥️

   4. @@LMcBee not every stay at home mom is broke or has zero skills. I don’t see anything wrong if the woman has a say on how the household income is managed/ distributed. Not everyone lives the life in constant fear of a divorce.

   5. @@LMcBee won’t be hard for her to date if she wanted to

4. The more broke a guy is the less he wants her to stay at home. The more he has his life together and the more accomplished the more masculine hence the more he wants to provide for her, naturally.

   1. The more money you have, the more you want to have your wife stay home. The more broke you’re, the more you need to work, especially because you’re fighting against inflation at all times.

   2. @@ladybug3380 tone deaf

   3. @@jermainemyrn19 it’s true though. If you can’t afford a family don’t have one it’s that simple.

   4. @ladybug3380  I disagree, I was raised with money. My parents were gone all the time, so we never got close. It’s not all about the money, and everyone deserves to have their own kids if they want to. It’s not anyone’s fault they’re broke because there are a ton of systemic issues

   5. ​She’s right. Don’t have children if you can’t afford them.

5. I really like the guy early in the video who talks about how grateful he is that his wife stayed at home with the kids and made a sacrifice. What a gentleman. He saw it for what it was. I’m sure she’s also grateful but I love hearing his perspective. He acknowledges that that was a sacrifice on her part.

   1. Same❤

   2. It is a sacrifice and SAHM is truly challenging as well!

   3. It’s not a sacrifice. It’s part of what she brings to the table

   4. @@mikesolns1364 agreed, it is part of what she brings to the table. I say sacrifice to represent the fact that women who could often have very successful/high earning careers often choose raising a family. It is a trade off. When a woman gives up the chance to make her own money, it is a sacrifice. In some cases, she stops being her own person in the eyes of the world and just becomes the wife of the person who makes the money. Women are obviously so much more than just “somebody’s wife.” I think a lot of women give up so much to stay at home. To me, it is admirable and I also feel like it’s very important for a healthy society to have a parent at home when kids are in the house. With that being said, staying at home is a luxury for most. It can be achieved for some families with very careful budgeting and choices on lifestyle/location for living, but in general, it is certainly a privilege to get to have only one parent working outside the home.

   5. ⁠@@mikesolns1364 Your comment is the main reason women initiate divorce 80 -90% of the time.

      Men see what the man does for the family as a sacrifice, but what the woman does isn’t. Pathetic.

6. Guy with the neon yellow shirt had the best answer. He appreciated his well educated career woman wife when she stepped away from her job to raise their kids and when she returned to work. Also mentioned that they were fortunate to be in that position to do that!

   1. He’s clueless, she sacrificed her job for the kids. He did NOTHING. There was no father figure in the lives of the children, because he wanted money and not his children love. No wonder many children prefer their mothers over their fathers. Both parents should have just worked part time if they were rich enough.

   2. You are right. He had the best answer!!

   3. It’s quite funny that the first guy approaches relationships as a competition and not necessarily as a sincere relationship between two people.

      Apparently, it’s only out earning a woman that keeps the woman from leaving to another person. That’s not a healthy view on life, lol. And this is why I don’t like money obsessed people. Everything, even what should be a sacred human relationship, is all rooted in money.

   4. I agree, he had the best and sweetest answer!

   5. I loved him too and the next one after.

7. The most beautiful thing another person can give you is the gift of ‘CHOICE’. I like the men who said that they didn’t care, as long as she is happy-and actually meant it. Those are the men that I would make it my mission/business to keep happy.

   1. Yes, to me that is the right answer.

   2. Facts

   3. but keep in mind women will never give that gift of “choice” to men, so who ever could recive that gift from men should be greatful

   4. Men should focus on their own happiness… God didn’t put men on this earth to try and make women happy

   5. Yes, I love this 🥰

8. Here’s some solid advice my father gave me before his unexpected death:
   Always be able to make your own. It’s fine for your husband to provide because as a man, that’s what he’s supposed to do. But always be able to make your own. I was in my early 20’s at the time, so I didn’t really get what he was saying. But in my 40’s, I totally get it. It’s nothing wrong with being a SAHM, but have a skill set where you can make money if you need to (unexpected illnesses of husband, unexpected death of husband, divorce).

   1. Well said, underrated comment. Its like one of men said in the video. You can be a nurse, teacher, etc. and after raising kids or/if something unexpected in life happens you are not left wiotheout source to live.

   2. Amen!

   3. This happened to someone I know and she struggled taking care of herself and 4 kids because she married young and her husband was against her studying and working. Learning and doing that once you’re on your own and responsible of 4, it’s truly tough. So even if you choose to be SAHM, learn a skill or few just in case.

   4. Your so pretty

   5. This! 👍🏻

9. I’m a stay at home mother of 4. My husband works his butt off to provide for our family and I appreciate him SO much! I am so grateful that I can be here to raise and teach our children, cook and clean. There is no place I’d rather be.

   1. Ummm you suck

   2. I’m so confused right now bc my wife has been a stay at home mom to our son for 2 years and she complains that I don’t help her out enough. She cooks once or twice a week and cleans occasionally making it seem like she can’t handle it then there’s other women here saying they do it all. I’m pissed and confused at the same time.

   3. @@terrycrews1760 Not every woman is right for being a SAHM. It is hard work and at times feels like an exhausting, thankless job. Managing about 100 people was actually easier for me, IMO(my career before children). But, I have always dreamed of being a SAHM and, I want my husband to be happy and feel his peace at home.
      Make sure you thank your wife for what she does do, that may encourage her to do more. And, if your child is young(1-3YO) those can be exhausting, trying, sleepless times for her. She may be in a season of life that she is struggling through and in those times, you need to give her grace. Being angry won’t solve any issues, those you’ve got to talk through.

   4. @@terrycrews1760 Also, her priorities may be different then your expectations, so make sure you are on the same page. I homeschool 3 of our four children, 4-5 days a week. It usually takes me from 9am-2 or 3pm, I do get a small amount of house work done during the weekdays(mostly dishes and picking up) and Saturday is my cleaning day, bathrooms, floors, laundry, etc. I do cook at least 6 days a week, but I Really enjoy cooking! If I didn’t, cooking would feel like a burden. It takes meal planning for me and a little time to put my lists together and make sure I have what I need. When our youngest was an infant, I was cooking about 3x/week as breastfeeding had me sitting more during those times. Every family’s needs and expectations will be different. No body’s wife can literally do it all, but some of us try really hard to!

   5. ​@@HSHealth723I have six kids. Of course it can be exhausting. Being a parent requires you to be selfless and people want to be indulged and spoiled. Cooking and cleaning a handful of times a week is insanity.
      It is easier to be work than be a SAHM , but I didn’t have children to farm them out for someone else to raise.

10. This is a perfect example of the mentality of successful men.
    They are not “women belong at home and I’m the king” They all recognized the value and sacrifice of their women staying at home, and still mentioned their women are hard working and intelligent.

    1. Yess love it

    2. YES!!!

    3. Exactly! Staying at home is a job as well, if one makes enough money for everyone than the other can work to manage the family’s life and lower everyone’s stress level. Granted it’s an opportunity that only comes with high individual income or the money’s scarcity would be much worse in terms of stress levels.

    4. Where were those compliments you speak of?

    5. 1000009%

11. You can see the amount of respect the first man has for his wife based on how he asked her to come on camera when asked if he prefers his wife to stay at home.

    1. yeah, the only one who understands that is up to her, not him (from those who have a stay at home wife)

    2. But i thought behind every successful man like bezos and gates was a divorced woman! 😂

    3. @chinaboss6683,
       Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

    4. @chinaboss6683,
       Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

    5. @@mineandmine4528
       Thats a fun fact isnt it? Heres another fun fact for you: what is the origin of the word ‘test?’ Its is testes, testicles, or testosterones. Hence, its a mans world.

12. People don’t actually realize how much work being stay at home is kudos to the trader

    1. That one guy said ,” she brings home the stress from work , it’s not worth it “ Thank you , you are so right,!!

    2. Hopefully those kids don’t put their parents in a nursing home

    3. @@dinajones2761 their parents are well off so they will retire early and live freely until they pass. No retirement home necessary.

    4. That doesn’t mean anything at all. Many people put their parents in a care home when they start to suffer neurodisorders with age. So its not about “living freely”, you need to wake up. I know wealthy people who were put in a care home because they were mentally aging (not their choice!) and in the end that was selfish of the children. SO, your response doesn’t mean a thing.@@LowSlungBadBitch

    5. We know but we also know that danger of that .

13. I’m a stay-at-home mom. My children attend a private college prep school and the vast majority of mothers are stay-at-home moms. We put so much into our children and homes so our husbands can work hard to provide.

    1. Your comment is backwards to me. I think your husband works hard to provide so you can put effort into your children and homes

    2. Mom’s need to be with kids, we see what happens when mom don’t have time for kids. Women need financial support and emotional support so finding a good guy is important if you go this route. Woman are better off not having a man’s kids and house work to slave away and be broke when kids are grown and husband retires nicely or leave them for someone young and fresh. FT

    3. @@littlebeluga2537I agree. The sahm role is very important but it can’t be done without the man’s initiative to provide for his family.

    4. ​@@littlebeluga2537it’s a partnership. These wives help their husband continue to progress. That is unspoken rule when these relationships are successful.

    5. @@littlebeluga2537no I think she meant what she said. She’s taking care of home and kids so he can go out and focus on working knowing that’s taken cared of

14. You don’t have to be wealthy to support a family. You just need to choose a woman whose lifestyle is in line with what you can afford to provide.

    1. Exactly, that’s the point many men miss. Hypergamy is not about choosing the rich, who said that? All women in the world are in different circumstances and positions in their lives and the same goes for men. Each individual chooses the one for its kind, that’s it.

    2. You get it!

    3. THAT PART ! My husband does construction and we gross 70k. I’m a simple woman and in some aspects I’ve even become more simple to accommodate me being at home with our kids. We live in NY btw….. But if you want a trophy wife be prepared to pay the price and don’t complain. I rather people say they loathe traditional family structures than to blame their reasoning for rejecting such on the other gender.

    4. I’m sorry to say but I don’t agree when some PPL say you don’t need so much money just a wife who can live by what you earn……………a certain amount of money is required to live atleast well enough….if you want a women to do the best at home you also need to be a good provider and hardworker….the best you can provide….. not saying you have to be a millionaire but sufficient to be comfortable…….
       If you earn so very marginal how can you expect the wife to do the best….hungry stomach can’t work hard at home and do good housekeeping

    5. @@user-vt2ce2jc4r while I agree that a man’s job is to be a good provider, a woman’s job doesn’t just consist of housekeeping and raising kids. A man can expect and lead a woman to do far more than just those things. A woman can tend gardens, take care of livestock, hunt and fish, forage for food and medicine, find deals at the grocery stores, and manage the budget. Even if they live in a city, she can still participate in these activities. Perhaps she has a creative hobby she enjoys that can also supplement family income. Many people who are poor find ways to manage even with many children, so I’m sure that the rest of us can too.

15. Has anyone noticed that all of these older men are physically fit

    1. Right 😂😂😂

    2. Yes, money, personal chef, and trainer make that fairly easy to do!

    3. @@user-vg8ez9cu6u also there might be a correlation between discipline and wealth

    4. Yes, they have a personal slave.

    5. ​@@spolch9482sound like a feminist…the seed of jezebel

16. As a woman and the daughter of a divorced woman who was a stay at home mother. I am fundamentally against giving up your ability for gainful autonomy on the hope a man won’t have a midlife crisis, cheat, or die.
    No skills no experience means no living wage for women going back to the workforce.

    1. there are laws

    2. Marriage means working through those things. I’m not surprised a person raised by divorce parents feels that way. I was raised by parents who are about to celebrate 50 years together. I have seen them go through hard times and come out stronger. You have no idea what you are missing.

    3. Thank you!!

    4. Yeah everyone live life based on fear! GREAT advice.😒

    5. Fear is a very important factor, ignoring fear is big mistake many ppl do n go broke ​@@danieallen5609

17. “She could be a nurse or a teacher, but anything else is too stressful” two of the most stressful jobs 😂

    1. That guy was an idiot.

    2. Yes they are. Just shows how clueless some men can be.

    3. Also, as if being a sahm didn’t create plenty of stress either.

    4. This.

    5. Every job requires dedication….or amrriagea lso requires dedication from both, and humility.

       Humility helps you to cleanse your mind from toxic thoughts, and find the spot of present moment and live in the moment, but have innewr mantra about helping epopel and the husband and he also ahs to have the same mantra about marriage, but if both do some nice activities as walking in nature , or camping traveling…it puts them closer.
       having separate hobbies buta lso common hobbies.

18. I’m glad that the guy in the yellow mentioned how grateful he was to his wife for being educated and recognized the value of taking care of the family untill the time was right. And that he recognized that it was a sacrifice and that he was lucky to be in a position. I also loved that he mentioned when she went home to stay home he doubled down on his end and acknowledged that it is hard for her to put aside some external advancement. Seems like he recognized her contributions and value and balanced with her.

19. I stay home. I have for a long time and my husband has always worked. I homeschool our children, I cook, I clean, I take all the kids to their appointments and their after school programs, I make sure my husband has what he needs to get to work and come home and rest. On the weekends my husband and I team together and work on house remodeling and play with our children or attend family gatherings. It’s fulfilling for us to live this way.

    1. We are basically your twinkies!! We love running our household this way.

    2. You say that you make sure your husband came home and rest, who make sure you can rest and who think about your needs? Just because you are not paid that doesn’t mean you do not have the right to rest as well! Home and kids are yours and your husband. You work 24/7! Staying at home bring so much unbalance without being noticed because you think “oh I am at home I do not get have the right to be tired and stressed”. Yes you have, you do basically everything…
       I’m happy if you are happy, don’t get me wrong, but I am sad to think that by this comment I feel like you think about everybody but nobody think about you. That’s the problem whit stay at home, you loose your rights

    3. @@Ser11222 no rights are lost. On Saturdays he brings me breakfast in bed while I sleep in. I go to dinner with my sisters sometimes, or friends as well. That’s when he handles dinner and cleanup and the bedtime routine. He also takes me out for a date every other Friday. I’m not a victim, I am very happy being a stay at home mother. My children are very happy and so is my husband.

    4. That’s beautiful

    5. 🥰

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