a more thought provoking video, let me know your thoughts on this in the comments…
#attractiveness #looksmaxxing #psl #selfimprovement #pslgods
The “Perfection” Trap
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a more thought provoking video, let me know your thoughts on this in the comments…
#attractiveness #looksmaxxing #psl #selfimprovement #pslgods
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Bro always comes with high quality contents
yoo I need a suggestion from u
For a bit I got insecure about eyes not fully matching then I remembered everyone has flaws and I’m still considered attractive despite that asymmetry
Yeah, but flaw on eye area is really damaging one to have, not all flaws are the same
@LOL_MANN It’s not a severe asymmetry
@@LOL_MANNYou can pull bug eyes off with hollow cheeks and a symmetrical jawline
@@TwistedLullabiesit’s yo mouth piece bro
@AsteriusAetosSonOfTheDawn It’s cuz I got soshul skillz
Absolutely love this gem of a channel.
actually id like a partner who isnt looks obsessed (even if unlikely) but the main reason i want to look god is for validation if im being honest with you. also most ppl wrongly thing looks only are involved in dating but actually they involve pretty much every aspect of life and the most Br00tal part is that parents tend to treat the better looking child with more care
bro just made me spill my blackpill
This is true I used to like this girl but I was 15 and she was 13 she liked me and I knew and I ignored her till I left school and I kinda regret because she was really pretty but yh that was just an unfortunate experience now she’s a memory!
Girls should not be a priority in your teen years.
@ alr what age then si?
@@INSIGHTS-y6n prob 17+
I have experienced that 2 girls around 7/10 have had interest in me (short 6,5/10), but I was too shy and tought I didnt have the perfect moment to talk to them. One girl is from my gym and I havent seen her in months. The other girl is from my school, but she started to ignore me after summer break becsause I didnt approach her and I wont see her for a year.
The blackpill / looksmaxxing worked well, but now I need to have use some redpill content / game and confidence to talk to girls, because I dont get approached by girls that often and I think my softmax potential is at 7/10..
Red pill is good stuff, one rule they have that helped me: always assume attraction from the girl. This way you’ll never miss out on an opportunity.
Try to pull them back, if they seem still disinterested, let it go and find other prospects.
Really good message, I have almost looksmaxxed to my max potential(only thing left is leanmaxxing) and I have for the last few days been thinking how if my hairline was this and my jaw a certain way but I have accepted my flaws and now Im feeling more confident than every other moment in my entire life, keep the doing this content is a godsend.
You can achieve becoming lean while going to the gym consistently – and going to meet girls and people the same day. So don’t worry about it, it is a process, so start today and you’ll be lean and have good company
its harming my relationships
i told a girl “We shoudlnt even be talking your way out of my league”
Over
The fact that Anna Speckhart husband is an overweight guy always surprise me
One of the best BPill channel short, sweet, straight to the point, no autistic gay edits and consistent.
Thank you so much, bro 🤒. I’ve been way too obsessed with myself lately, always feeling like I’m not enough. Recently, a friend told me that a beautiful girl has a crush on me, and I was honestly shocked. I couldn’t believe it at first, but then she DM’d me, telling me how she saw me at my friend’s birthday party.
At the party, my friend took a photo of me and said, “Man, this looks amazing!” But when I looked at it, I almost felt depressed because I thought I looked terrible. Meanwhile, everyone else kept saying how good I looked. I’m finally starting to understand that we’re more than enough in terms of looks. We’re often so focused on self-improvement and “looksmaxing” that we don’t realize other people don’t even notice those little imperfections we obsess over.
People see us in a positive light, as long as we can look in the mirror and feel good about ourselves. So chill, guys—enjoy life and be confident in how you look!
I have a little question bro. Why did you think you looked terrible in the photo that your friend took at the party? Was the photo of yourself different from the way you look in front of the mirror?
@@andyvux8256 Yes,
It’s true that photos can look different than what we see in the mirror, and that’s because we’re used to seeing ourselves in a specific way. When we look in the mirror, we see a familiar, reversed version of ourselves. But when a back camera captures us, it shows our actual image, which often highlights any asymmetry.
My friends and I recently tried a little experiment: we all stood in front of a mirror, and each of us looked pretty good. But as soon as someone took a group photo with the back camera, we each noticed things about our faces that felt asymmetrical. The funny thing is, only we notice these details, while others don’t even pick up on them.
In reality, if you look good in the mirror, there’s a high chance you look good in person too. I recently went to a model show and asked a photographer about this, explaining how I noticed my face looked asymmetrical in back-camera photos. He said it’s totally normal, and even models deal with this. He explained that sometimes, editors flip the image so models can see themselves as they would in the mirror, which feels more comfortable.
So, don’t let the camera fool you! In real life, people see us as we see ourselves in the mirror, and we’re often a lot more attractive than we think.
Yeah I’ve had so many similar experiences. That ideal version of myself is line engrained in me so if I don’t see it I get depressed. But people will tell me me I look good and still won’t fully accept it
@@andyvux8256 its dismorphia prob also some ppl have in mind they want to look like the PSL gods
stop comparing yourself to others, only improve what you got. Everyone’s genetics are different
I’ve basically reached my max potential, just skincare maxxing now
this video came in perfect time. i was thinking about this very recently as well, and i think its also a mix of insecurity and lack of confidence even tho i’ve had really great interactions with women when i was at my absoulute worst (lookswise)
For real I’ve done everything, I can say I’m average but the problem I tell my self I need to be more attractive
Did this when I was 17 cos I was a bit chubb and not muscular enough.
Man, so many girls would check me out back then. I was so dumb.
Same darn. It’s harder now, but there’s no reason why we cannot create new opportunities for ourselves.
Wym?
Be brave. Strike up a convo. Worst scenario, NOTHING HAPPENS — which is where you are at now – it’s not a deficit. No overthinking
I am so glad someone is finally talking about this.
This mainstreamed chasing of perfection (in all areas of life), is creating a chronic pressure.
Because of always comparing, everything you do (or have) gets mirrored towards an ideal of perfection, their actions just act as proof of their insecurity.
well said, I do find myself chasing perfection
@@moneymakinmitch8130 Thank you for both your compliment and your reaction man. I highly recommend you read Robert Fritz’s “Identity”. It’s so different from any self-help book, and really helped me see and dissolve this chronic pressure I was putting on myself – feels really liberating. But it’s like a feeling you don’t know was there, until you stop feeling it.
He also talks about why perfection is such a stupid ideal to begin with and how it permeates our entire society more and more.
Huh
ok time to ask my sister out wish me luck guys
😂😂😂
Damn this is literally my problem. Sometimes I be wondering if I’ll ever be content with myself and the way I look and if I’ll ever feel like I’m enough